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The Real Reason We Have Three Kids

The truth is – we never planned to have three kids. Kids are a lot of work. Frankly, they can be a pain in the butt with very little reward, too. Or so it seemed.

So why three?

Our oldest, Julia, spent the first 6 months of her life being extremely fussy and hard to comfort. But, dang, that girl was cute.

Julia, Spring 2008
(Julia, Spring 2008) Those legs, yo. Big, fatty thighs. Delish.

Despite the sleepless nights and the colic crying, we knew one thing beyond all doubt – we make awesome babies and the world needed more of them.

We got pregnant when Julia was 9 months old. We didn’t expect it to happen so fast, but true to her personality, Hannah is an unstoppable force.

(Hannah, Fall 2009) Cheeks for days.
(Hannah, Fall 2009) Cheeks for days.

Once we had both girls, parenting became a puzzle – fitting all the pieces of joy, hardship, frustration, exuberance, together to make this beautiful design.

But a piece was missing to our jigsaw puzzle.

(Joseph, Spring 2012) Smily boy
(Joseph, Spring 2012) Smily boy

The night Joseph was born, our puzzle was complete. He was the missing piece that put everything together. Now, with all three kids, we were a family.

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The truth is – we never planned to have three kids.

We never expected to have our world flipped around with the birth of each of the kids. We never expected to have our world rocked quite so. Yet, we also never expected to have so much freaking fun. Kids are a lot of work. Frankly, they can be a pain in the ass too. But, these three kids of ours have been worth every minute of our lives.

2 replies on “The Real Reason We Have Three Kids”

You’re amazing and the joy of the Lord is alive and well in you! You are running the race very well! Cheering you on- kick it!

Your strong and brave, and I really enjoyed our meeting and our visit. Peace and love to you and your beautiful family.

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